When you point out to Men that their Male-only Fraternity is Implicitly Sexist

Take this Spatula

I am fairly tired of online rants about What's Wrong With Masonry These Days (there are only so many ways to complain about reading minutes and lack of Masonic education, after all) but this  instantly struck me as a perfect encapsulation of why "pancake breakfast Masonry" is so frustrating to newer members who join expecting something deeper and richer: